Three Real Reasons You Are Not Manifesting

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Hello, and welcome to the Art of Life podcast.

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This podcast is where I share my journey of living a life with more

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abundance, more freedom and a lot more love than I could imagine.

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So as I go along in my journey, I want to share these tips and

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resources with you as well.

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My favorite hack is called grounding.

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This is the way in which we connect with earth and the sun.

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These are the natural resources that are available to us for balancing our

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internal energy, for releasing stress.

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And for bringing in all the goodness that we want in life.

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If you wanted to access grounding or learn about grounding, you can

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go to artoflifecenter.com/grounding where I have a free grounding course.

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It's got lots of useful tips and little 5 or 10 minute nuggets that

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will just help you find calmness, no matter where you are in your life.

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Alright, let's dive in into today's topic.

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Today I wanted to talk about manifesting or really why

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you might not be manifesting.

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Now truth is that you are always manifesting whether you believe it or not

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this is absolutely true because you're always attracting everything around

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you that is a vibrational match to you.

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Now if you are feeling sad or if you're feeling frustrated you might

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be creating those similar things around you and often your reality will

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tell you where you are vibrating at.

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So you are manifesting all the time.

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It's just a law of nature.

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It's a law of this universe.

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But what we have to do is we have to start manifesting at a level that we want.

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So if you want to create your dream house, if you want to have a soulmate, if you

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want to have a job or a work that really nourishes you and supports you, then you

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want to be thinking about what is it, how can you actually tweak your manifesting

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so that you are manifesting what you want.

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So let's talk about the most common reason why we might not be manifesting.

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And you might have already guessed this one.

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Most of us think we are.

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are operating from a place of lack.

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So there is an inherent belief that we do not have something.

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And when we start with that vibration, guess what?

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We get more of that.

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So if you wanted to attract a soulmate and you were thinking, Oh, my friend has

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a really cool boyfriend, and so on, you're actually operating from a place of lack.

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Now the trick to reverse this is actually to train your mind to think positively.

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Think about the blessings that you have instead.

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For example, you could think about water.

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Maybe you have access to drinking water.

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A lot of people in the world today unfortunately do not have access

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to pure, clean drinking water.

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Maybe you have a very healthy body.

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There are people that you would know even who do not have a very well

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functioning body or they might even have terminal illnesses and so on.

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So just thank yourself for that.

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Maybe you live in a nice place, even if it's small, even if it is however it is,

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it's a nice place where you can be by yourself, or you can have your family

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and friends around, whatever that space is, just be grateful to that first,

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before you start creating the house.

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If you wanted to have a really good soulmate, you could start by thinking

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how amazing you are with friends.

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You could start by thinking about stuff where you are blessed in relationships.

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Maybe you have a really good family.

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Maybe you have some really good friends.

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Maybe you've known some people for a really long time.

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Or maybe you just connect with people really well.

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But think about those and offer gratitude for those.

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Gratitude is a very simple and easy antidote to that feeling of lack.

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When you come to gratitude, when you come to really counting your blessings,

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truly everything else just starts to fade away because the more you are in

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gratitude, you realize how much stuff is absolutely amazing around you.

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So that's tip one.

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Just operate from a place where you feel full.

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When you start with that, then that's what the universe will give you more.

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The second main one is what I term as havingness.

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So how much can you have something?

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Think of this as your ability to dream.

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So let's say you wanted to have a million dollars one fine day and

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you are thinking, Oh, why am I not manifesting this lottery yet?

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But maybe you haven't dreamed it at that level.

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Maybe you are still operating at a place where just 10,

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000 is a lot or 20K is a lot.

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So get yourself to really dream at that next level where you want to go.

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What you could do is if you went to a shopping mall, for example, just pick

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up the really expensive handbags, put them around you, just walk in that

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or just see yourself holding that.

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See yourself having really luxurious plane trips if you wanted

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to manifest a million dollars.

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But really start feeling yourself dreaming like that is happening.

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And then you start vibrating at that frequency, which will

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manifest more of what you desire.

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This is where vision boards also come in really handy.

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Now the third most common one is permission.

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So if you have been operating from a place where you can feel it, if you're

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not really coming from a place of lack, but you're still going, Hey, where's

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my hunky dory partner right now?

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I still don't see this person.

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Then you have to give yourself permission for this.

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So permission is have you allowed yourself?

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What might be standing in the way could be your conscious beliefs.

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And it could also be your unconscious beliefs.

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Some things you will know.

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Just hear your thoughts and you can go, Oh my God, I was thinking about that.

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So that's something that you can work on.

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So let's say if you wanted to, again, earn a lot more, maybe your

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thoughts are, Oh, I can never do that.

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And if that's the thought and that will not really materialize, right?

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Some of these thoughts could be very unconscious.

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Maybe you have a pattern that runs in your family.

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Maybe your family believes that money is to be earned with a lot of hard work.

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And you will notice this by just looking at your family members.

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You'll notice this by what your mom and dad are saying,

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or cousins are speaking about.

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There's a theme, there's a theme to what we match at a family level.

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So just think of those family agreements.

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and patterns that you might be carrying.

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And then the trick is to just rewire yourself.

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Start saying something which is completely the opposite.

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Start saying something that is empowering.

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So if the family belief is that you must work really hard so that then you can

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get some money, you can start telling yourself, Hey, I earn money with ease.

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And just practice saying that again and again and again, till it actually

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starts feeling a little bit real.

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In the beginning, it might feel totally foreign, but what you are doing is you are

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training your body to that new frequency.

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And you are allowing it to feel safe with that.

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You see, your body acts like a gatekeeper as well.

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So if in the past you had a really bad relationship, a very toxic relationship

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where you felt unsafe, the next time when you want to manifest a relationship,

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your body is remembering all of those experiences and going, no, no, no,

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no, we don't want a relationship.

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So you might be wanting to manifest a relationship.

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But your body is not ready.

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So with the permission, with the affirmations, you are just letting your

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body breathe and feel relaxed with that new mindset, with that new manifesting

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project that you are working towards.

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You want to feel comfortable so that when you get it, it feels like

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yes, that was always meant for you.

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There's no shock.

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That's what the body wants to ensure.

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So you can just give it a lot more permission.

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I'm going to give you some bonus material here as well.

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You learned about the three reasons for manifesting, but what I've found in my

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coaching is that we still don't understand where it is that we are lacking.

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Like we still don't understand our blocks all the time.

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So I'm just going to give you some clues here.

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Everything in this dual world, in this dual universe is really about balance

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if you started thinking about it.

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And manifesting is simply the same as well.

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If you are balanced, if you are operating from harmony, that is what

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the universe will give back to you.

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So chances are there are places that you are either lacking or there are places

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where you hold some internal fears where whatever you want to manifest,

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your dream just cannot come through.

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So think through it.

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One of the most common imbalances that I see is between the divine feminine

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and the divine masculine energies.

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Now, we all have divine feminine and divine masculine

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energies inside us, our own.

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It doesn't matter what our body gender is, we all have our own internal feminine

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and own internal masculine energies.

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The masculine energy is a lot around providing, it's a lot

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around doing all of the actions.

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Feminine energy is a lot around receiving, it's around resting, it's

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around intuition and attracting.

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But if you have a disharmony, then that would make you feel disconnected and it

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just means that the universe cannot give you what you're really wanting to seek.

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So if you are holding some bias against certain genders, like if you have a belief

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that, hey, women are bad or men are bad, anything like that, that just means that

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you have an imbalance somewhere because in its neutral, purest form, nothing's bad.

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Everything's made from source.

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Everything's divine.

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So just work on those feelings.

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Wherever you feel like you hold a knot against another gender, for example, you

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could just think about people that you know who are in that gender who are good.

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Maybe you could even research some people on media and it doesn't mean that you

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have to like them a hundred percent.

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It could just mean that you like them somewhat, and you

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like certain aspects about them.

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There's nobody who's totally bad and who's totally good.

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It's just our perspective on it.

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So that's one way to look at it.

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Other things you could look at to understand your disharmony is you could

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just look at the elements themselves.

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For example, look at air, do you feel okay if you are in a nice wide open space

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or do you prefer a closed environment?

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Are you okay if it's windy or are you not okay if it's windy?

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And now ask yourself if you're not okay if it's windy, why is that so?

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If I ask myself the same question and I'm pretty much to the last

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stages of working through it, is I don't like the wind because I don't

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like my hair coming on my face.

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And it seems very simple answer at first, but the more I dig into it,

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I don't like my hair coming into my face because it hides a part of me.

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So freedom is a very important value for me.

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Freedom is what I want to give out to everyone else as well.

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And when I feel that's hindered, then I'm not in my best element.

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But just having that balance and being okay, like not being

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triggered with wind, but just being like, Hey, this is one part.

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And this is how wind works.

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This is how air works.

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The same air that allows me to breathe and do this podcast, that

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same air is super necessary as well.

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So if you are interested, then I have the moon meditation circle

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where we run through a lot of these balancing energies all the time.

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We just meet during the new moon and full moon, but we balance

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and harmonize our bodies.

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Whatever you might be feeling in your body, you'll start feeling

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a lot of harmony and a lot of connection coming back into your life.

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So wherever you felt frustrated, that starts going away and instead you

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start feeling a lot more fuller, a lot more connected with people around you.

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